====== Transcript of The Issue Buster Process ====== ===== Introduction ===== Here follows a full transcript of the Issue Buster process, taken from a client on the [[http://www.powersofsix.com|www.powersofsix.com]] website. **Note: When running this process with a client I begin with the Clean Start.** ===== Transcript ===== What would you like to focus on this session? * Getting motivated to lose weight What do you know about that? * I have used every diet possible but have always regained weight as soon as I stopped And what else do you know about that? * I am sick of dieting. Why didn't I get better genes? And what else do you know about that? * I start out motivated in the morning but by the afternoon I find myself eating something not in the diet and then it all blows up And what else do you know about that? * I should do more exercise to help with the weight loss plan And what else do you know about that? * I hate how I look when I am overweight And what else do you know about that? * I am going to get very unwell and maybe die if I do not do something soon And what do you know now? * That I will continue to be unhappy with myself and unhealthy if I do not do something What does that know about you? * That I have a choice lose weight and be happy and healthy And what else does that know about you? * That I have lost weight in the past so I have been motivated And what else does that know about you? * That I do know what is good for me and how great I felt when I had lost weight And what else does that know about you? * I have to be more diligent than some other people due to my genes and also the slowing of my metabolism due to age And what else does that know about you? * I have the will power to diet when I choose to And what else does that know about you? * I am probably just sick of the struggle of the yo-yo with my weight And what do you know now? * That I have used will power in the past to lose weight and it is my choice about what I now do Is there anything else about that? * I have done it before so I can do it again And is there anything else about that? * I know how difficult it is to stick to a diet so maybe I need to get some type of support as it seems to be getting harder for me to stick to a diet at the moment And is there anything else about that? * I am sick of doing this so I need to really have some sort of maintenance plan so I do not have to keep doing this And is there anything else about that? * I have so many other issues overwhelming me at the moment it seems hard to concentrate on losing weight And is there anything else about that? * I am probably using food to comfort myself And is there anything else about that? * That if I do not lose weight it will create more worries for me And what do you know now? * That I have stresses in my life which are making it more difficult for me to concentrate on losing weight Where could that come from? * Some of the stressful situations are from without such as financial crisis family problems, but a lot are from within worrying about my job and my health which are also related to being overweight And where could that come from? * From not being financially, physically and emotionally fit enough to take control of these issues And where could that come from? * From not losing weight and being confident in my decisions And where could that come from? * I am angry with myself for being in the situation at this time of my life And where could that come from? * My resentment towards others for not doing their share and giving more input And where could that come from? * I believe I deserve better than I have got And what do you know now? * That I cannot rely on others and I have to stop being angry with myself about it And then what can happen? * I can let go of the anger and resentment And then what can happen? * I can be free And then what can happen? * I can make my own choices about what I want And then what can happen? * I can let others go that have not been supportive And then what can happen? * I can be scared of being on my own And then what can happen? * I can accept these people as they are and not expect anything from them. We can just be And what do you know now? * That if I keep going I will remain angry at myself Is there anything else about that? * I need to release this resentment And is there anything else about that? * I am angry at being let down by others I gave so much they could have done more for me And is there anything else about that? * I never realised how angry I am And is there anything else about that? * That maybe I am so angry with myself and others I am hurting myself And is there anything else about that? * This anger is keeping me stuck And is there anything else about that? * I have to let go of my anger and others And what do you know now? * That I am very angry and resentful and I need to release this and then maybe I can release some of my weight also And what is the difference between what you knew at the start and what you know now? * I am amazed that I have discovered that underlying my lack of motivation to lose weight is anger and resentment